Should My Mom Add Me To Her Accounts? - The Elrod Firm (2024)

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Justin, I am listed as Payable on Death (or P.O.D.) on my mother’s bank account. However, the bank told me that this does not give me access to my mother’s funds until she passes away. What if I need to access the funds in her account to pay her medical bills or other expenses while she is still living? Would it be better for my mother to add me as a co-owner on all of her accounts? – Sue

Sue, Generally, I do not recommend that parents add their children as co-owners on bank accounts. When a child is a co-owner, if someone sues the child, the parent’s funds would also become part of that lawsuit. The same applies if the child goes through a divorce or bankruptcy.

However, as an Elder Law Attorney, I understand that sometimes it would be very useful for a parent to give one of his or her children access to bank accounts. If your mother is still able to sign legal documents, then I recommend that she appoint you to be her agent under a Power of Attorney rather than a co-owner.

A Power of Attorney document allows your mother to appoint someone else to act on her behalf when needed. You or your mother can then take a copy of her signed Power of Attorney to the bank, and the bank will list you as POA (Power of Attorney) on the account. Being POA on an account is different from being a co-owner. It provides the benefits of being able to access funds to care for your mother but removes the risk that unexpected trouble in your life will cause trouble for your mother. This is because, as POA, you are acting as a representative for your mother while she remains the sole owner of the funds. The Elder Law Practice prepares comprehensive Power of Attorney packages designed to address this very situation.

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Should My Mom Add Me To Her Accounts? - The Elrod Firm? ›

Sue, Generally, I do not recommend that parents add their children as co-owners on bank accounts. When a child is a co-owner, if someone sues the child, the parent's funds would also become part of that lawsuit. The same applies if the child goes through a divorce or bankruptcy.

Should my elderly parents add me to their bank account? ›

You could jeopardize your parent's financial security if you have financial challenges. For example, creditors can take the money in the joint account as collateral to settle your debts. Additionally, the funds in the joint bank account can also affect your eligibility to qualify for college financial aid.

Can my mother add me to her bank account? ›

To have a joint bank account, your parent could add you as a joint owner to an existing account. Or, you could open a new account together. To do this, you both would need to provide identification and some information to set up the new account.

Should I add my daughter to my bank account? ›

You could add them as an agent under a power of attorney or add them as a designated beneficiary to that account and that is something different, but making a child a joint owner on a bank account is almost never a good idea.

Is it better to have a POA or joint bank account? ›

Most estate planning attorneys recommend the use of a POA rather than adding an owner to a joint account.

Should my name be on my parents' bank account? ›

The person will incorrectly assume that having his name listed “on” his parent's account will be enough to avoid probate. The main reason why this is not true is because a POA is void and the Agent loses all “powers” when the Principal (the giver of the POA) dies.

Can you still withdraw money from a joint account if one person dies? ›

Joint bank accounts

If one dies, all the money will go to the surviving partner without the need for probate or letters of administration. The bank may need the see the death certificate in order to transfer the money to the other joint owner.

Does a joint account override a will? ›

Yes, joint ownership of an account overrides a Will. The joint ownership will be effective over and supersede any directions in your Last Will and Testament regarding a specific account and how those assets are divided.

What happens to joint accounts when a mother dies? ›

If a person is a joint owner of a bank or building society account with the person who has died, then from the time of the death the joint holder automatically owns the money in the account.

What happens to joint accounts when one dies? ›

Joint Bank Account Rules on Death

Joint bank account holders generally have the right of survivorship, which grants the surviving account holder ownership of the entire account balance.

Do joint accounts avoid inheritance tax? ›

Estate Tax Consequences

If the surviving joint owner is not a spouse, then the fair market value of the entire account will be included in the decedent's estate. If the surviving joint owner is the surviving spouse, then only 50% of the fair market value is included in the value of the decedent's estate.

Who pays taxes on a joint account? ›

Who Pays Taxes on Interest From a Joint Bank Account? If you have a joint account, you both may have to pay taxes on a portion of the interest income. However, the bank will only send one 1099-INT tax form. You can ask the bank who will receive the form because that person has to list the income on their tax return.

Should bank accounts be included in a living trust? ›

Creating a revocable living trust gives you a legal document that will protect your property, including your bank accounts and any other assets in your estate. You should put your bank accounts in a living trust to ensure the funds are easily accessible for your beneficiaries when the time comes to inherit.

Can a POA withdraw money from a joint bank account? ›

Each person on the account has the legal authority to use the entire account balance for any reason. In contrast, a person holding a power of attorney also has access to the grantor's bank account, but he or she is legally required to use those funds for the benefit of the grantor.

Who owns the money in a joint bank account when one dies? ›

Most joint bank accounts include automatic rights of survivorship, which means that after one account signer dies, the remaining signer (or signers) retain ownership of the money in the account. The surviving primary account owner can continue using the account, and the money in it, without any interruptions.

Can a POA make themselves joint on an account? ›

A person with Power of Attorney for their parents can't actually “add” the POA to their bank accounts. However, they may change bank accounts to be jointly owned. There are some pros and cons of doing this, as discussed in the article “POAs vs. joint ownership” from NWI.com.

How do I protect my elderly parents' bank account? ›

7 Steps to Prevent Financial Abuse of Elders
  1. Talk about money. ...
  2. Offer to assist your parents with monthly bill paying. ...
  3. Meet your parents' friends. ...
  4. Be present in your parents' lives. ...
  5. Notify your parents' bank. ...
  6. Carefully vet caregivers. ...
  7. Check credit reports regularly.

Should you add someone to your bank account? ›

Managing shared finances through a joint account with your spouse, children, or business partner can foster a streamlined and secure financial setup. Furthermore, research indicates that sharing a bank account with your partner can lead to a better quality relationship.

Who owns a joint account when one person dies? ›

Joint bank account holders generally have the right of survivorship, which grants the surviving account holder ownership of the entire account balance. The surviving account holder retains ownership regardless of which owner contributed the money, and the account doesn't go through the probate process.

How to make sure family has access to bank accounts after death? ›

Adding payable on death and/or transfer on death beneficiaries to your account is the easiest way to ensure your heirs have easy access to your account after passing. Adding joint account holders with rights of survivorship makes things simpler after you pass but can lead to complications while you live.

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